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Top 5 don't do as a man during sex(2)

Here is the second part of the things as a man you must never do during sex which makes your partner fuming! (1) Don't attack her clitoris Orgasm doesn’t happen via clitoral stimulation. “Men think ‘clitoris, clitoris, clitoris’ — they think it’s all about the clitoris, so they focus on it,” says a dating and relationships coach, DeAnna Lorraine. “But they don’t realise it’s incredibly sensitive. It doesn’t need to be jackhammered or be the sole focus.” Instead of going straight to high-speed stimulation, start by very slowly stroking her clitoris — and let her body tell you when it’s time to try a new move. “Sometimes, women will shift their partner’s fingers aside or shift a little bit because it’s getting too sensitive,” says Lorraine. (2) Do not overly command in bed Yes, it can be totally erotic to be told exactly what to do between the sheets — but, remember, there’s a difference between taking the reins and being controlling. “It’s nice when a man is in charge and he has a sense of confidence about him,” says a licensed marriage and family therapist, Monica Lieser. “That’s very different from just running over somebody.” How can you tell if you’re crossing the line? One clear signal: You direct her into a position that you’ve never tried before. “It’s just assumed that the partner will do it,” says Lieser. If you want to be a little dominating, only command her to do things you’ve experimented with in the past — and mutually enjoyed. (3) Do not make manual stimulation your first move To you, it’s an awesome appetizer to the main event — but to her, starting with clitoral stimulation just feels a little invasive. “Men think that a woman must be manually stimulated in order to become turned on,” says Lieser. “But there’s nothing arousing (to her) about putting your finger in a vagina that is not lubricated. In fact, you’ve just gone back by about five feet!”

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